When I started telling people, at least 3/4 of them didn't believe me or blatantly didn't take me seriously in any way at all. It was horrible and confusing and disorienting, because it's hard for men to really process the idea that it can happen to us too. Meanwhile I'm over here like "I don't know if I just got this crazy bitch pregnant, also how the fuck did she just remove my personal agency." I told her she raped me and she laughed in my face. Yes, female-on-male rape is a real thing. So she held me down and got what she wanted. I was shoving at her and yelling, but I had no room to move my legs at all and had basically no physical leverage in that position.
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#Remind me reddit drivers
We were in the drivers seat of a car and I was pinned between my seat and the steering wheel on top of me, and I wasn't wearing a condom. I once had an outrageously hot girlfriend who didn't stop when I said to. If an ugly person grabs your crotch or your boob, or smacks your ass in a bar, or doesn't take no for an answer, it's sexual assault and nobody questions you and everyone immediately rallies around you and agrees the person is bad. When someone who's attractive goes way too far, it's frequently taken as a compliment, laughed off, or just not spoken of again, and if you take issue with it and tell someone, they're a hell of a lot less likely to believe you and/or try to talk you out of it/convince you it wasn't as bad as you're making it seem.
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I'm not seeing this listed so I'll go ahead and say it: sexual assault. I know for a fact that if he was skinnier, had hair, and wasn't ugly that people wouldn't think he's creepy at all. I visited his desk and he said I was the first person to visit him (he started here maybe 6 months ago.) It's very unfortunate for him that people think of him this way. I talk to him every so often and he's a really nice guy.
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He plays on different softball and bowling teams, goes out to bars with his friends, and from what I can tell, seems perfectly normal. He's got a lot of friends, from what I can tell on Facebook, and practically zero work friends. He's your nerdy, 40-year old virgin type of dude. They all think he'll shoot up the place or maybe will eventually be banned from entering a school zone. overstaying your cubicle visit or whatever. He's a redhead, he's balding, yet his sides and back are pretty long, he doesn't cut his nose hairs, he's constantly red/pink, pot bellied, and yeah he kind of lingers around your desk and talks a bit too much.
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Literally just existing and talking to people.